Day 240: Sketching, Clearing Space and Working on Habits

My daughter joined me in the conservatory this morning during my quiet time. I had spa music playing and she said that the atmosphere was really nice. She seemed to want to chat about this and that so I went with the flow. I do love these kind of moments; they seem to be popping up more and more with my daughters recently. Mostly with each one individually.

After my daughter left the room, I set a timer for my usual 24 minutes. My mind kept thinking about the benches I saw in Herne Bay yesterday as well as the one I sat on in my mum and dad’s garden. I felt drawn to sketching again.

Sketching benches

I look forward to my quiet time every day and I’m hoping that I can still carry on with it after my week off.

A few decluttering hours

I spent hours and hours downstairs today decluttering the kitchen, dining room, hallway and shoe cupboard areas (again). I am amazed at how long it took me to shift the stuff. I tend to move things around when sorting out other rooms so I was left with bags by the back door and items on the table to sort through which were a mix of recycling, charity stuff and things that I needed to find a place for. I was also out yesterday so I got behind with things in the kitchen.

The shoe cupboard looks better though – I did sort things out in there early on in the year, but items have crept back in such as carrier bags due to the extra ones that have been arriving with the shopping these days, and there was even a bag of books that I thought I’d put in the garage to be given away.

I moved out the stuff that shouldn’t have been in there and threw away a few old pairs of flip flops that had seen better days. I also thought about how I could make a bit more space in there by transferring the shoes that I’m not wearing at the moment (i.e. work shoes, holiday flip flops) to my wardrobe upstairs. I’d created a whole shelf for my shoes a couple of days ago so that worked out well and there’s still space.

Before and after photos of the shoe cupboard

Let’s see if it can stay tidy in there. I’ll be keeping my eye on things.

I eventually had to stop to cook dinner… home-made meat pie with mash and vegetables.

Home-made minced beef pie

It was quite tasty if I say so myself. After that I was faced with all of the clearing up. So, by 9pm I was able to sit down to write.

How am I feeling?

The purpose of today was to clear some space around me downstairs so that it feels like it does when I’m in my tidy conservatory (where I can be totally calm). I spend a lot of time in the kitchen/dining room area and it’s felt very cluttered lately. Like most homes, it’s a high traffic area where everything happens, so it’s understandable that it gets like that. I couldn’t believe how many times my husband came downstairs to get a cup of tea today or something to eat, and the girls occasionally rushed down and then back up again after grabbing this and that (they’re busy preparing for going back to school and have lots of school work to do).

What doesn’t help with the clutter build up, is that I have a habit of bringing things downstairs or in from the garage and then I run out of time to put the stuff away or sort things out because I get interrupted with having to make dinner or do something for someone. It’s a well know fact that the area by the back door seems to be the place that I dump things until I have time to sort them out.

I think I’ve made a dent today, but it’s still not completely how I would like it. I’m sitting at the tidy breakfast bar listening to the feint hum of the dishwasher. It’s so satisfying knowing that all the dishes are being washed whilst I am sitting here just listening to it. I’m very grateful for my dishwasher as I know that not everyone has one.

I know that there is still a box of stuff to sort out in the dining room area behind me, so that will have to wait until tomorow as I’m feeling tired now. The space by the back door is clear so that’s positive.

I know how important rest is for me so I’m going to call it a day now and get this posted. Instead of thinking that I’ve not finished, I should reframe that thought and be proud of myself for what I’ve achieved today. There’s always tomorrow…

Until then…

Sandra

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Day 239: An Afternoon by the Sea Clears the Mind

A Few Pictures of Herne Bay

The girls and I drove to my mum and dad’s in Herne Bay today. We took a packed lunch and sat in their garden to eat it so that we could still practise social distancing. Then we all popped down the road to see my brother for a short while in between his meetings.

After that, I really wanted an icecream and a walk around by the sea. We were so lucky with the weather as the sun came out just at that point and we were able to spend about an hour wandering around. It was so lovely and I so needed it. Did you spot me in the photo sitting on the grass staring out to sea?

Before the long drive home, we went back to my mum and dad’s garden for a cuppa and a slice of cake that I made yesterday.

A Home-made Victoria Sandwich Cake

I think that it was the fresh air that made me start to feel really tired; however, I managed to wake myself up enough to drive home.

I’m ok with having a day off from decluttering today as I’ve done loads this week. I’ll consider it as a day to clear some space in my mind. As I’m not back at work until next Tuesday afternoon, I still have plenty of time to get more work done around the house.

I am now going to curl up and watch a film and maybe go to bed early. Really looking forward to it.

Thanks for a lovely afternoon mum and dad! It was so good to see you.

Until tomorrow everyone…

Sandra

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Day 238: Focusing on Decluttering the Wardrobes One Step at a Time

After carving out the usual time to myself this morning, I carried on listening to Mel Robbins audible book Take Control of Your Life. She has a no nonsense approach and I needed that today. I just had to jot down these words to share with you…

If you have a decluttering project that’s overwhelming you, just focus on that one lego block at a time approach; brick by brick to make it stick. You don’t need five hours, attack it five minutes at a time.

Mel Robbins, Take Control of Your Life

After listening to that, I put my decluttering hat on and got started!

Sorting out another wardrobe

Today I took everything out of the bottom of the other larger wardrobe next to the one that I sorted out yesterday. I knew that it contained a large suitcase full of clothes that I’d put ‘out of sight’ months ago. I didn’t expect to find another smaller suitcase in there also full of clothes!!

Hidden cases of clothes

I was a bit annoyed with myself for not getting rid of these a long time ago. Anyway, I did a quick sort by holding up each item one by one and either putting it in the ‘charity’ pile or ‘not sure if I want’ pile. I know, I know… not a good idea, but I’d forgotten that I had this stuff and I kind of liked some of it. There’ll be no final decision until I’ve tried it all on. I just wasn’t in the right frame of mind for that today. I counted 30 items from the pile below that have now gone into a charity bag. Well done me!

30 items of clothing for charity

In the wardrobe I also found bags of toiletries and shoes (that I’m not sure that my husband knew were there), an old iron, a couple of overnight bags that were all dusty, some papers, an old inflatable mattress and other random items. Quite a bit of that stuff will not be staying!

I vacuumed the carpet inside the wardrobe (it goes round the corner next to the other wardrobe so it’s a bit awkward to get to) and I only put back the items that belonged in there. The suitcase of clothes that I need to try on will also need to be put back in there temporarily; however, I’ll be getting rid of the smaller suitcase because the zip is broken (I was actually quite pleased when I discovered that as it helps with decision making 😀).

I haven’t touched the actual clothes that are hanging up in this wardrobe as my husband will need to do that another time. At least the floor area is clean and clear. Here are the before and after photos of the floor area.

Before and after clearing floor area

I’m pleased with my progress today, and I actually made some decisions about stuff. I was actually quite ruthless I think. It was a perfect day for this kind of task as the weather has been so windy and a little bit wet today. It’s still howling out there now.

One other important point to add is that I made sure I had short breaks throughout the day. I even rustled up a quick Victoria sponge cake 🍰. It was delicious with a cup of tea.

Until tomorrow…

Sandra

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Day 237: Tackling Another Cluttered Cupboard, Led to Two Hours of Reading Old Journals

I have a week off and I didn’t start it with a headache which is certainly a first. I must be doing something right.

My new regime of spending an hour or so to myself in the conservatory every morning is working well. After eating my breakfast, I set a timer and spend 24 minutes just sitting and letting my thoughts wander with only a notepad in front of me. This is different to the meditation tracks that I also listen to in the evenings.

So far (since I started my morning time out sessions last Friday), no one has disturbed me and it’s doing wonders to my life in ways that I cannot even explain. I feel calmer, happier and more fun (don’t laugh, but I think I used to be fun 😂). It’s like the clutter clearing and time out per day is uncovering something… which leads me nicely onto what I worked on today.

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Day 236: Sorting Out Spare Room Cupboard Leads to an Evening of Fun

I’m assuming that I’m not the only one with a junk cupboard or two, or three. Anyway, in our spare room we have two cupboards and the one that I decided to sort out today hasn’t been sorted out for a long time; however, things do get shoved in now and again. The last time I opened the door, I remember there not being much more room to add anything else. The video below shows the big reveal of the ‘stuff’ before taking everything out.

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The Outstanding Blogger Award

I would like to thank jesusluvsall for nominating me for the Outstanding Blogger Award.

Rules of the award

1. Provide the link to the creator’s original award post. (very important: see why in step 5)
2. Answer the questions provided.
3. Create 7 unique questions.
4. Nominate 10 bloggers. Ensure that they are aware of their nomination. Neither the awards’s creator, nor the blogger that nominated you, can be nominated.
5. At the end of 2020, every blog that ping-backs the creator’s original post will be entered to win the 2020 Outstanding Blogger Award!

This award was created by https://coltonbeckwithrpc.wordpress.com/

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Day 235: A Solution to Feeling Stuck… and a Roast Pork Dinner

Following on from yesterday’s theme about hiding behind things and feeling stuck, I want to share with you something I listened to on Mel Robbins audio book Take Control of Your Life. She talks about being stuck and how people focus too much on the massive big picture and then never actually take the first step.

If you are in need of growth you feel stuck. When you feel that knot in your chest and you feel your thoughts start to spiral, that’s the physical signal that what’s missing is growth. And the only way to get it is to think… what’s a lego block that I can add right now?

Mel Robbins, Take Control of your life

During my 2020 challenge, I’ve been changing my life brick by brick and not trying to do a whole room in one day. I might focus on one room one day and one room another, but they are all steps that move me forward. Doing it this way has helped me concentrate on the steps rather than the big picture.

Today’s steps

Today, I spent a bit more time in the spare room sorting through piles of stuff and categorising things into the relevant plastic boxes (which was the method I started in this room a couple of months ago, and have been dipping in and out since). Quite a bit of the stuff is now boxed up and most things have been put into the garage that we don’t want anymore.

Stuff boxed up

Whilst I was doing this today, I cooked a roast pork dinner and I also managed to fit in a 15 minute nap (I actually had to set a timer, in case something burnt in the oven). It all went well and everyone ate it in about ten minutes.

Roast Pork Dinner

Changing anything is a process

At any time during the decluttering process, I could have just cleared whole rooms and dumped it all into the garage. What’s stopped me was that I would have just been moving the problem to another room. Yes, it would have been out of site and out of mind for a little while, but as soon as I walked into the garage I would have known that nothing in those boxes had been sorted and decluttered. As it stands, anything that’s made it as far as the garage is more or less going to be walking out of the door one way or another (and I don’t mind spending time in my cluttered hideaway now and again when I need to get out of the house).

I really don’t know how my house is going to look by the end of my challenge, but what I do know is that I will feel a whole lot better.

Slowing down

It’s important to remember that life sometimes gives us something different to what we visualise. For this reason, it’s important to be flexible. Frustrating as it sometimes is, slowing down and doing things step by step makes us feel more in control.

So, if you are feeling stuck, remember Mel Robbins words… “It’s essential that you only change things by slowing down and making small moves.”

Until tomorrow…

Sandra

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Day 234: Clutter Sketching Forces Me to Slow Down

I sat for ages this morning just looking at one area of the spare room (which started off messier than the below picture I might add). I knew that I needed to listen to someone energising and upbeat, so I scanned down my list of audio books and found Take Control of your life, by Mel Robbins. Perfect! As I listened, I was propelled into clearing and sorting. The following words stuck in my mind…

“Busyness is something I hide behind when I’m afraid of facing things, because if I’m busy I don’t have the time to face the things that scare me. The secret to control is slowing down”.

Mel Robbins, Take Control of your life

I found a sketch pad in the clutter which reminded me how much I like to sketch and doodle. I sat down and did this…

Nor an exact representation of the photo, but it took my mind of things for a while whilst I sipped my tea.

Slowing down

From what I’ve listened to today, I’ve worked out that some of us are afraid to slow down as it forces is to think 🤔; however, decisions are apparently made when we are doing something else or nothing at all.

This rings true for me as I quite often have good ideas when I’m peeling potatoes, out walking or having a shower.

I definitely need more time out to sit and do nothing which fits in nicely with my new lifestyle changes that I mentioned yesterday.

Until tomorrow…

Sandra

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Day 233: A Week Off and A Glimpse of a Lifestyle Change

I have the next week off work starting tomorrow. I finished my last email around 9pm this evening and shut down my laptop until 1st Sept. Looking forward to some time off. Apart from a few appointments that I need to take the girls to next week (hair cut, dentist, orthodontist etc.) I should be able to take it easy and get some long awaiting jobs ticked off my list.

So, after a long working day, I wasn’t about to start anything big this evening; however, I did do some jobs at lunchtime today… put some washing away, cleaned the kitchen and watered the plants. There’s plenty of time for decluttering and creating space whilst I’m off.

I treated myself to a relaxing evening… had a shower, did the minimum I needed to do in the kitchen and then just read and listened to some audio books for a bit.

A few ideas on my lifestyle changes

I’d like to make some changes to my life to add in more reflection time and me time. I’ve been hearing more and more about how beneficial this is (which deep down I knew anyway). I’m choosing more and more not to sit in the lounge in the evening and watch TV with everyone just because that’s what we’ve always done. I want a choice… sometimes it feels right to do that and sometimes I just want to sit in silence.

I think it might be as simple as adding a few more routines into my day where I take time for me; to reflect on life. The routines I currently have in place when I wake up are to stretch for five minutes whilst doing some deep breathing. I hardly ever miss that. Sometimes I go for a walk.

I always end my day listening to a meditation track. I have an app called Synctuition which is working for me and they’ve just added a new level.

This week I’ve also added in some time in the conservatory first thing in the morning to eat my breakfast either in silence or whilst reading or listening to something inspirational. This is all possible because the room is fully decluttered now and it feels great!

I recently stumbled upon Mo Gawdat’s 14 day Happiness Challenge where he’s teamed up with the company Rituals Cosmetics and there’s a short 5 to 7 minute video to watch every day for 14 days (today was day 11). This morning I found another video that I’d missed the week before the challenge began and as I listened, the following sentence struck a cord with me…

You are in charge of your happiness and regardless of what’s happening in the world, if you have your habits (your rituals) in place, you can still find happiness regardless of the events of life.

Mo Gawdat, From You Tube video Meet Mo Gawdat, Happiness Ambassador

So, from now on my ‘me time’ will include my rituals… my habits, and I will try and embed them into my life from now on.

Absolutely looking forward to tomorrow.

Until then…

Sandra

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Day 232: It Took Me Less Than 3 Minutes to Clean a Vacuum Cleaner Roller Brush

Being my morning off, I caught up with some housework. As I was vacuuming the lounge, I noticed that the cleaner wasn’t picking up very well. On checking the brush roll today it had soooo much long hair wrapped around it. I have long hair and so do both of my daughters so it’s probably a combination of all of us.

Our hair has wrapped itself around the roller brush a few times since my Day 90 post back in March, where I wrote that it took me ten minutes to de-hair the roll. I thought I’d do something different today and instead of explaining how I cut all the hair out (which would be a bit boring and I’ve done that before) I thought I’d do an amateur video. I must be getting quicker at cleaning the roll though as it only took me 2 minutes and 38 seconds, which is pretty much a record for me. Here goes…

Cleaning a vacuum cleaner roller brush in under 3 minutes

I’m sure that my daughters could have edited this for me so that it looked a bit more professional, but this will have to do for my first attempt. I made myself chuckle at the end of it, as I could have cut the video by at least ten seconds if I had put the cover back on the cleaner the right way round. Oh well, it’s not something I can reshoot until we shed more hair. I could also have talked a bit more in the video as well, but funnily enough I didn’t think of that at the time, I was too busy trying to concentrate.

I’m sure I’ll get better at this with practice. My only experience with videoing is taking them of my daughers when they were growing up and I only had to point it in their general direction to get such great footage. They did all the work and I didn’t really have to do anything.

Let me know in the comments if you would like to see more videos of housework/decluttering or if you would prefer me to just stick to writing. I’m sure there’s a way of speeding these videos up or editing them so that you maybe only see certain bits (I will just have to ask my daughters to teach me – they are born knowing how to work technology).

All the Ws: Washing, Washroom, Wednesday and Weekend

To make the housework routine a bit more fun today, I thought ‘Oh, it’s Wednesday. Let’s do Washing and Washrooms’. (Note: bathrooms didn’t begin with W so I changed it to a more suitable word, ha ha). Funnily enough the Weekend starts with W as well, so I could introduce a routine to do Washing and Washrooms on Wednesdays and the Weekend.

I think that maybe it’s time for me to wind down for the evening. Bit of a long day with work and cooking as well. I went for fishfingers, avocado, lettuce, spinach and a slice of wholemeal bread this evening, which wasn’t quite the same as the traditional fishfingers and chips, but far healthier.

Fishfingers for dinner

Until tomorrow…

Sandra

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